Simple and Fun Self Care Tips to Survive the Holidays
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Is there such thing as simple and fun holiday self-care tips? I don’t know about you, but the holidays really stress me out.
There isn’t much simple or fun about them!
We’re forced to run from one family to the next. And in-between, we try to manage our own household and somehow find time for ourselves.
And when that doesn’t happen, we lose our cool. Yet, no one seems to realize the hoops you’re jumping through to keep holiday expectations and your cool, together.
As an introvert, I need my own time, but there’s none to spare. There has to be a way to recharge our batteries while finding quality family time.
Outside of just holding our family up at home and skipping the holidays all together, what options are there?
With this ultimate guide, you will find the answer to this question!
I think you will see that many of these holiday self care tips can be carried out alone or with your family and can be done regardless of activity level.
Importance of Self Care During The Holidays
Let’s be real here. You can be the biggest- most festive- person, and the holidays can drag on. To many, it is synonymous with stress.
Is it that hard to understand why self care is important then during the holidays?
The fact of the matter is, we all know that it’s important to practice self care. We tell our friends, kids, and even spouses to take a load off, yet we don’t ourselves.
This guide is critical in helping you evaluate tons of different simple and fun ways you and your family can take a load off together. I can guarantee you that you’ve not thought of all these tips!
Get Out for a Walk or Jog
Some of you may be asking yourself right now “that’s in Ben’s simple and fun holiday self-care tips post?”
Well, yes. We all have varying activity levels. There are lots of people who enjoy getting out of the house together.
Take a stroll around the block. Focus on breathing in the cold winter air and rid yourself of any anxious feelings.
Personally, I hate the winter. But, I love breathing in the cold air. It wakes you up and makes you feel very liberated. If your family is not keen on going for a walk, take your dog or go alone.
Taking some time for yourself in this way can be of tremendous benefit to recharge your batteries. Remember, at the end of the day, you’ll be crammed into another family member’s house shoulder to shoulder.
Use your time wisely!
Take a Warm Bath
Now, I don’t necessarily recommend you do this with your family. That might get weird real fast.
But stress can easily be relieved through submerging your body in warm water. If you really want to spoil yourself add some Epsom salt.
This will really help loosen your muscles and relax you. Following a long brisk walk, I guarantee you that your mood will improve following a bath.
I’m not too keen on baths. I’m over six foot tall, so it’s difficult for me to fit in the tub. However, my wife takes baths about every other day to de-stress. This is definitely her favorite self care tip she shares with friends.
She makes them super-hot and stays in there for only about 10 minutes before she crawls into bed for the night.
She retains the heat in bed making a cocoon of warmth for the cold winter night.
Treat Yourself to Coffee or Hot Cocoa
At least once per week, my wife and I make a drive out to get coffee. To tell you the truth, I’m not sure if this is so much about coffee as it is time together away from the kids.
Whether you prefer to go alone or with others, getting coffee or hot chocolate can be the perfect escape.
It doesn’t have to be a long trip, and it can give you a great mood lift. This is a simple holiday self-care tip and has a great return!
And honestly, you have to admit, making a coffee run is always the perfect excuse to slip away.
Rock out to Uplifting Music
It’s easy to listen to depressing music. Everyone is guilty of that when they’re feeling lousy. To assure that you really boost your mood for the holidays, force yourself to listen to uplifting music.
Sing along to it if you have to. If you have kids, try dancing with them while singing.
The more engaged you are with the music, the more your mood will change.
My daughter loves Nirvana- much like me. This isn’t the most uplifting and happy music, but when the music starts, we both have a blast jumping around to it.
Watch Your Holiday Favorite
The Christmas Story airs for 24 hours straight. Do you look forward to watching it a dozen times? Maybe that’s not your favorite, but there are tons of great Christmas movies.
Whether you’re festive or not, sitting back and watching a movie is a great way to take a break. It is mind numbing, your family can be involved, and often times you can pig out on snacks.
If you want to make an interesting twist to this, spend the holidays watching horror movies.
Slasher films are best, but a haunting or possession movie can be a great second. Strangely there are holiday movies for these too.
Obviously, if you have kids, you might have to wait for this part until after they’ve gone to bed. And though this isn’t a slasher film, for any winter self care tips article I have to mention Die Hard. Yipee ki yay!
Get Yourself a Journal
If you’ve read much of my material or signed up for our newsletter (and I recommend you do), you have learned by this point that I’m big on journaling.
It’s a great escape for anyone because of the insight it builds.
Journaling does not have to be the traditional “diary” or writing about your day!
Stargaze The Seasonal Constellations
I’m going to spare you the astrophysics, but I will tell you this. The star constellations change throughout the year. That means, the holiday season offers a unique view of the universe!
Dress warm and go outside, lay down, and stare up at the sky. What constellations can you find? This will be dependent on where you are also in the world.
If you would like to see a what constellations you can find, check this out!
What I really love about watching the night sky is trying to comprehend the vast distances you’re seeing. And not just distance, but that you are basically looking into the past! Chances are, many of the stars you see have burned out and we’re still seeing light emitting from them.
Whether the stress is related to the holidays, anxieties about family, or anything else, snowball fights are perfect to release your inner anger!
Let your rage loose without having to worry about hurting someone else. Remember, these are simple and fun holiday self care tips. They are not completely non-violent. Besides, a controlled rage release can be therapeutic!
If your family wants to join in, even better! Kids love snowball fights, and it’s not something you age out of.
Even if it’s just you, the neighborhood kids may need a good pummeling.
In fact, the neighborhood boy around the corner doesn’t have to know you got satisfaction out of that head shot, because he let the dog go to the bathroom in your yard.
Anger and frustration are common when you’re stressed out.
Build a Snowman
With the added benefit of being outside, detaching yourself from stressors by building a snowman lends an uncommon way to practice mindfulness.
There is also an element of creativity in how you make him. This may be one of the most fun holiday self-care tips that you should do with your family.
Being the only one in your yard rolling big snowballs may get a lot of looks. A nice alternative might be making a snow fort.
Guided Meditation and Mindfulness
Speaking of mindfulness, meditation is right up that alley. There are many who practice meditation while practicing yoga or even listening to a guided meditation.
If you are interested in mindfulness, I can bet that you’ll love the Anxiety Pocket eWorkbook.
I have really appreciated the insight and calm that mindfulness brings.
Through this workbook, my colleague Heather breaks down how to disconnect and organize your mind, practice mindfulness exercises, grounding exercises, visualization, and self-care.
Mindfulness is an ever developing technique that will become more important the more you use it. Do not underestimate its power!
Adult or not, sledding is fun.
Wantonly casting yourself down a hill grasping onto a sheet of plastic might be the best thing about winter.
You don’t need a great sled or any real equipment. I’ve seen folks go sledding on tubes, trash can lids, their own behind, and about anything else they can scrounge up.
If sledding isn’t enough, add in another simple holiday self-care tip like coffee or hot chocolate. Heck, even adding some Irish cream to the mix may make it more exciting.
The opportunity with sledding is that your kids can join. You also can sit back and watch sipping on your drink.
Eat Your Favorite Food
For some, eating their favorite food can release a significant amount of endorphins. There are times when my wife loves chocolate more than anything.
Food has a well-established place in our lives especially during difficult times. When someone is grieving, it’s common to give them food. Why?
Because when we’re hurting, we often forget to take care of ourselves. You can easily make this a family event. Give everyone their separate part to complete, whether it’s the main course, side, or just setting the table.
If you have a favorite food, make it. Seek it out. Indulging in your favorite food is perfectly OK.
Take a Timeout Helping Others
Volunteering can be one of the greatest feelings in the world- especially around the holidays.
When you can give back and help someone less fortunate, your mind will give you (a different set) of feel good neurotransmitters.
Your family can volunteer with you as well. There are tons of places you can volunteer- churches, shelters, and soup kitchens to name a few.
Even if you are in the helping profession, you can find another avenue to give back. I fully believe you’ll find this simple and fun holiday self care tit fulfilling.
Not long ago, I stepped in to help out with a kid’s food service. Though it was only an hour of my time, I felt so inspired leaving there.
Putting others first in your spare time may seem counter intuitive to self-care, but it’s absolutely not. Try it and you’ll see!
Make a Bullet Journal
These are the newest trend for personalizing your journal. There are myriad examples out there on how to create one.
What’s awesome about making a bullet journal is the infinite customizations you can design. Not only is it therapeutic to relax through your creativity, it can also help you stay organized.
I know many people who have listed their monthly budgets, appointments, reminders, and anything else needing attention.
And since the craze of bullet journals, there are spinoffs. So if you don’t want to create a bullet journal, look for an alternative that still promotes your artistic creativity. Your family can join in by customizing their own, which can help teach kids responsibility by keeping track of appointments, allowance, and chores.
Give it a shot!
Get out and Ice Fish
When I was a kid, my dad had taken me ice fishing. I can recall sitting in the shanty around a hole in the ice waiting for a fish to bite.
Being out on the lake, tucked away inside- sheltered from the weather was surreal. The experience wasn’t so much about fishing as it was spending time together drinking hot chocolate.
To this day, I couldn’t tell you if we caught anything. A major plus is that when you’re out on the lake, it’s unlikely the kids will get much cell phone reception.
And if you simply want to go out alone, what better way to just get off the grid?
Spend Time with Your Significant Other
How obvious is this one? How much do we actually try and take time to do this during the holidays?
Plan yourselves a date night. It doesn’t have to be elaborate. When you can keep your relationship intact and rouse up some romance, feelings of exuberance will overtake you.
Going out to get coffee as I had mentioned earlier may be a good start, but it’s important to find something more substantial and out of the ordinary.
My wife and I may go to a new restaurant or get drinks at the brewery. Heck, we have even just gone for a hike with the little one.
There are plenty of free options if dinner or drinks are outside of your budget. To find a some options, simply ask google about free events or activities near you to fulfill this holiday self care tip.
Make a Gingerbread House
This activity is suggested with caution. If you get frustrated very easily or are a perfectionist, your gingerbread house may end up smashed into the wall.
Gingerbread houses are pretty difficult to make. But there’s a ton of ingenuity and creativity that can go into it.
Kids also lovemaking these. If you can get through making one without giving up, the gingerbread house can serve as a great conversation started and guaranteed to get some laughs.
My family and I had a gingerbread house making competition last year. We all had the same materials and had to make the best- most elaborate house we could.
We laughed a lot and no one’s stood long enough to showoff.
It was totally worth the time and escape from holiday stress. And for those curious, no I didn’t win- maybe next year.
Pinterest a New Recipe
Pinterest is a huge resource for food addicts. I mean that in an endearing way. And eating can be a great winter self care activity for you and your family.
With infinite recipes at your fingertips, you’re sure to find one that fits with your family’s mood.
Don’t feel that you have to stick to just baked goods, though! In my quick search, I had found pasta dishes, dinners,various sides, and treats.
I even found a Christmas Cookie Pizza. What the heck is that? You can assign different parts of the process to your kids and significant other to make this a family activity.
And when you’re done, obviously you’ll get to eat it. If you have another holiday stop coming up, you can also just take it with you as your dish to pass.
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Simple and Fun Holiday Self Care Is about Quality Time!
These 18 simple and fun holiday self care tips are just the tip of the iceberg. These activities can be done alone or with your family. With the stress that you endure through the holidays, it’s so important to find a way to release it.
When we don’t, what happens? Our families are affected. Our relationships degrade.
We don’t function well at work or keep our mind clear. Embrace each day and do at least one thing for yourself. There is no way you can help and support someone else without keeping yourself mentally healthy. What are your plans to do that?
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